What You Can Do About Domestic Violence
The mere thought of an abuser being awarded child custody or the loss of economic security leads to inaction and the continuation of the abusive relationship. Domestic violence takes many forms. It can be physical or mental and often involves psychological intimidation. The actions of abusers are meant to establish control and create fear. Very often the abusive partner is overly controlling of not only their victim but also their shared property and income.
Obtaining Legal Protection
Being subjected to any form of domestic violence abuse can leave you with genuine fear for the safety of yourself and your children. You may feel that co-existing in the shared home is no longer a safe option. By consulting with an attorney experienced in helping victims of domestic violence, you can take the appropriate and necessary legal action that will stop the abuser from engaging in harassing and menacing behavior.
The judge may issue a stay-away Order of Protection, which would forbid the abuser from having any contact with you. If you reside together, the abuser would have to vacate the home until the stay-away Order of Protection is lifted.
Starting Steps
The experienced domestic violence attorneys at Bryant & Bleier can help you obtain an Order of Protection and plan your separation or divorce from your abusive partner step by step. If possible, you should gather all written records of incidents of violence including exact dates and times, police reports, pictures and medical records of injuries. You should also make copies of your children’s medical and educational documents.
For anyone preparing for a divorce, and especially where there is domestic violence, it is important that you keep records of the following:
- Rent or mortgage statements
- Bank and credit card statements
- Children’s expenses
- Utility and medical bills
- Records of insurance
If your spouse knows that you have made copies of financial documents, they may sense that you want to leave and get very upset. For this reason, do not let your partner know that you have made copies of financial records.
Advocating For You
Do not let fear paralyze you from taking action in the best interest of you and your children. Our lawyers will stand up for you and advocate for your rights. We will zealously advocate for your interests regarding division of the marital assets, spousal support, and, most importantly, the custody of your children. The long-term well-being of yourself and your children is at stake and you should not face these life-altering decisions alone.
Call Us Today
A lawyer at Bryant & Bleier, LLP, can help to make sure that you and your children are safe and your financial interests are protected. Call us at 646-561-9227 or contact us online to schedule a consultation.